Wisdom of Celestial Tarot 2 – The Strength of Leo 天界塔罗卡(Celestial Tarot)的智慧2 – 狮子的勇气

A friend of mine requested me to draw a Celestial Tarot card. I wish to share this experience as she has kindly given me the permission to do so.

Friend: I wish to ask whether my current position is my vocation. Me: What are you doing now? Are you facing any problem now? Friend: Stay in my mom’s house and do many trifling things. It looks like there are not many things to do but there are really a lot to do. I am not paid. I am feeling aches and pains here and there. Too much pressure from mom and siblings. Past few days I was so busy dealing with termites problem. Me: You feel like leaving the current “vocation” (at home)and just go out to work to earn some money, right? Friend: YES! Me: [I drew a LEO-The Strength] Friend: Strength, I need it! Me: Take a closer look and see what are you being attracted to? Friend: Lion Me: What kind of Lion? Friend: A roaring lion! Me: A crazy lion or a lion who wants to be seen? Do you see your talent? Friend: Yes, I see but I am very tired. There are tons of unfinished and unfulfilling work. Me: What is your talent? Friend: I am multi-talented and I learn fast. Me: The problem with Leo is that she wants to be seen, acknowledged and praised. Friend: Yes. I have been like a sponge for the past few years. Even though I am not being praised, at least I must gain something! Me: Do you make use of your fast-learning capability? Friend: Partially. At least I do not have to feel frustrated. Me: What kind of gain do you expect? Friend: Money! Me: Take a look at the lion. It is lying by a woman’s feet. How do you feel about it? Friend: Oppressed Me: You learn fast and need the money, why aren’t you pluck up courage and step out of house to make your money? Who is holding or blocking you? Friend: The problem of Leo is …. Is it to be obedient even though feeling oppressed? Mom did not object to me going out to work but I feel she will be miserable if I do so. Me : If you feel ok to be obedient, it is perfectly OK. However, it is a problem if you are not willing. Friend: Haha… Me: It is you who think that she will be miserable but it may not be so! Friend: Great! Then I can slip out! Me: Certainly! Friend: I wonder how I can have such a friend like you. Thanks! Me: Do what you want to do. Arrange the household matters properly and you will have peace of mind to go out. Friend: My mom has compulsive buying. She would slip out of house and buy many things. There is no way to satisfy her. Me： Remember you have your life to live. Let her be. If she asks for money to buy unnecessary things, you need to be firm. Just like a child asking too much from parents, parents have the right to say no. Don't try to change an old lady.

Friend: YES! You always give me the right reminder at the right time! Which is much, much better than talking to many others many times! I really appreciate your helps n company! Love u! Me: Tell her if she has her own money, you can buy anything she wants. If no money, sorry, you have no money to give to her. Friend: The problem is she will ask from others。 Me: Leo has to be firm. Friend: I strongly feel this last few days Me: She borrows she needs to return. You are not responsible even though you are her daughter. Friend: She will make herself angry enough to be "rightful" to ask from others, esp those she helped before. She said it is ok even if anyone wants to give. Me: Then it is her business. Why should you be bothered? Ok, for now, think for yourself and your needs. You can only bless her. Friend: Yes, understand now! Thank you sooo much for your kind help! Me: Good nite Leo. Roar and listen to your roar. Friend: Hahaha，good nite guru

Friend’s situation demands her to pluck up courage to do what she really wants to do. If she has no courage, there will be plenty of obstacles and hindrances to fulfil her weakness. Superficially it is her mom who hindered her. In actual fact, she has no courage!

I am grateful to the pointers of Celestial Tarot which had assisted my friend to look into her need of strength.

朋友请我替她抽天界塔罗卡，得到她的应许后，分享给大家。

朋友：我想要请問天界，继续呆下來守著我現在的崗位，是我的天職嗎？ 我 ： 请问你现在做什么，是不是遇到了什么问题？ 朋友：留守在老媽的家，做著杂七杂八的事。看起來是沒工作，事实是工多得不得了! 面对自己沒工資，身体又疼痛，還要面对來自不止媽媽，兄姐的压力。。。這几天都在為白蚁忙。 我： 心中想离开现在所谓的天职(在家), 什么都不理出去赚钱是吗？ 朋友：📷👍！ 我： 【抽到狮子-力量!】 朋友：力量，我很需要！ 我： 看看那个部分很吸引你。 朋友：狮子。 我： 怎么样的狮子？ 朋友：獅吼的獅子！ 我： 发狂?还是要人看到或看？看到自己的才华吗? 朋友：看到， 但是我很累，好像一直在做著做不完又不討好的事。 我： 你的才华是什么? 朋友：多才多艺📷😁，学习能力強 我： 狮子的问题是很想让别人看到,认同和赞美。 朋友：是的。這几年都觉得自己有如海綿。沒有赞美的話，至少也要有利益啊！ 我： 学习能力强,有拿来用吗? 朋友：有一部分，至少也不要那麼受氣啊！ 我： 你想要什么利益? 朋友：錢！ 我： 看看狮子,它在一个女人的脚下, 感觉如何? 朋友：受欺壓！ 我： 你学习能力强,又需要钱,为什么你不提起勇气踏出门外赚钱?谁阻碍你呢？ 朋友：獅子的問題。。。，是不是就該乖乖被欺压啊？媽媽她沒說不可以；但是，我觉得她會很慘 我： 乖乖时感觉ok是没问题,不甘愿才是问题。 朋友：哈哈 我： 她惨是你的认为,未必呀！ 朋友：📷👍，那是可以溜咯！ 我： 📷👍 朋友：我怎麼會有您將的朋友啊！📷😜感激! 我： 做你要做的,只要安排好家里,就安心出去吧 朋友：我媽好像是有強迫性購買症。。。她一直溜出去，一直買不停很多錢都好像沒辦法滿足她 我： 切记，你有你自己的生活要过。如果她向你要钱，你必须坚持你的立场，就好像孩子过分要求，父母有权利拒绝孩子。请别想去改一位老人家。 朋友：是的，你经常在适当的时候给我适当的提醒！这比和其他朋友谈好很多倍！我感谢你的帮忙和陪伴。爱你！ 我： 告诉你妈，如果她自己有钱，她可以买任何东西。如没钱，对不起，你无能为力 朋友：问题是她向别人要。 我： 狮子应该坚守立场 朋友：我最近有此想法 我： 她向人借钱，她应该负责还。虽然你是她女儿，你不需要替她承担。 朋友：她认为她向别人要钱是理所当然，尤其是她曾帮过的人。 我： 这是她的事，你为何扯上了？从今开始，为自己和自己的需要着想，你只可以祝福她。 朋友：是的，我明白了。真的很感谢你的帮忙。 我： 晚安了狮子。听听你的吼声吧！ 朋友：哈哈，晚安老师！

朋友的处境，让她需要勇气来做自己要做的；自己如果没勇气，就会有一大推的障碍和阻力，来成全自己的无能。表面上是妈妈阻碍她出来做事，实际上是没勇气！

感谢天界塔罗卡的帮忙，让朋友看到她的需要。