Wisdom of Astrology 16: Divorce? 占星的智慧 16: 离婚？
- Low Boon Song
- Feb 27, 2019
- 3 min read
The discussion started after she was upset that her 5-year old daughter refused to go to school. She was at wits end.
Usually when a mother gets upset over a child issue, it could suggest that it is a repeat of her childhood life. True enough, she refused to go to school when her parents had bad relationship.
Looking at the transiting Uranus retrograding exactly conjunct her Sun and with the Sun ruling the 7th house of relationship, it suggests that she could be undergoing relationship issue currently. Since marriage, divorce often appeared in her mind. This time, the feeling of wanting to divorce was very intense and she was quite prepared to throw in her card already.
I asked her to draw a Celestial Tarot card which she drew XIII Death – Scorpio! She got a shock! Does this mean the end of marriage? Looks like she has second thought now. I explained to her the ‘Death’ means the end of something and the beginning of something else too. She is undergoing great changes in her relationship where there will be renewal.
With the transiting Uranus striking exactly at her natal Sun, it will give a lot of uncertainties, shocks or surprises, sudden changes or outbursts of circumstances in her life. Since she had such strong urge to put an end to her relationship, I reminded her that at this kind of transit, try not to make major decision. She understood the implication.
Two days later, she had a big verbal fight with her husband at a carpark after sending their daughter to school. A lot was expressed, revealing the truth of each other’s feelings. Transiting Uranus will tend to throw light at the truths. After that ‘hearty quarrel’, there was a big turn-around in their relationship!
From then on, their daughter goes to school happily. She sent me her daughter’s photos during Chinese New Year, enjoying herself heartily.
Lots of things are repeating itself in our life especially unresolved emotional feelings. They are ‘recycled’ down to future generations in order for us to reconcile with it unconditionally.
Well, this again shows how Astrology and Celestial Tarot can serve as a tool to help us reveal the hidden agendas of our life.
Basic Chinese Astrology class is starting on 14th April. Let me know if you are interested. On-site and online teachings are available.
我们开始切磋的开端，是关于她5岁女儿抗拒上学的事件，让她起了烦恼，不知所措。
通常，当一个妈妈遇到此事而起烦恼时，这很可能意味着历史从演的现象。果然不出所料，她曾经因为父母的不和而拒绝上学。
当时过运(transit)天王星逆行和她的太阳正合相，且她的太阳又主宰涉及关系的7宫，代表她正面临关系的挣扎中。打从结婚开始，离婚这两个字经常浮现。这次，好像不是开玩笑，要离婚的感觉达到巅峰，已做好准备打算摊牌了！
我提议她抽个天界塔罗卡，抽到了13号的死亡 – 天蝎！吓死她了！难道婚姻真的要结束了吗？看来她现在对离婚有些摇动了。我解释说，死亡代表一个结束，而迈向另一个开始。她现在关系里经历许多的变化，可能会有一个丛生的机会。
现在过运天王星正接触她的太阳，生命中会呈现许多起起伏伏状态、突发事件及心理的不安。既然她想结束这关系的念头这么强，我提醒她天王星这种的过运，最好不要做什么大决定，虽然她没学过占星学，但她也明白这流年天王星的意涵。
两天后，他俩趁女儿上学后，把车驾到一个停车场，好好的大吵一顿，个把心里话‘巴拉巴拉‘的吐了出来。原来过运天王星竟然把许多真相抛了出来！经过了这一场‘心理战争’， 他俩的关系竟然有180度的大转变。
从那时开始，女儿也很开心的上学。新年期间，她寄给我她女儿可爱与开心的照片，看了感觉很欣慰。
感谢占星学及天界塔罗的引导，挽回了一个挣扎的婚姻，也把快乐带个天真可爱的小朋友！个案也因如此的得益而决定上课了。
414， 第十届的基础占星班开课咯！
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